It was the mid 70′s… a gawky teen standing in front of the mirror being critical of his body for the hundredth time… destroying what little self-esteem he had. His nose was too big, his ears were too weird, his hair didn’t lay just right. And his eyes! they were just… wait a minute… his eyes… they were… kind of… cool. Yes they were different, but that difference was kind of cool.
Fast forward a few years. That teen is a young adult just getting out of the military. The color of his eyes no longer fascinate him, but what his eyes see fascinates him. The future lays in front of him… and it thrills him. That new vision propels him through a computer science bachelor’s degree in two and a half years. It pushes him to move into management positions in several companies, and then to start several businesses of his own. Today, I’m even more fascinated with my vision of the future.
What vision do your eyes see? Do you see a future where you are making a difference in the world? What is your passion? Does it stand out? To make a difference, your vision needs to grow legs… to be talked about. Seth Godin talks about sliced bread. Otto Frederick Rohwedder of Davenport, Iowa, invented the machine that creates sliced bread in 1912. Not until 1930, did Wonder Bread’s marketing of sliced bread really the idea spread. The vision was great, but no one knew about it.
As a side note, during WWII, the government banned sliced bread for a short while, and the outcry was massive! Here’s an excerpt from a letter appearing in the New York Times:
“I should like to let you know how important sliced bread is to the morale and saneness of a household. My husband and four children are all in a rush during and after breakfast. Without ready-sliced bread I must do the slicing for toast—two pieces for each one—that’s ten. For their lunches I must cut by hand at least twenty slices, for two sandwiches apiece. Afterward I make my own toast. Twenty-two slices of bread to be cut in a hurry!”
Now there is a committed customer! She wrote to the New York Times begging that the ban on sliced bread be lifted.
How can we spread our ideas now? How can we compete in a world full of glitzy ads backed by millions of dollars? TV shows like The Biggest Loser and American Idol, may give us a hint. I watched The Biggest Loser for the first time this last season. A friend begged me to watch it when I told him I wanted to lose a few pounds. I found it not very professional. I found the drama over the top. I also had a friend talk me into watching American Idol… with similar reactions. Why does America want reality shows? I think it is because America is tired of polished pablum… they crave reality, even if it is not so professional… the connection to real people matters more than the professionally created fluff.
This is great news for normal people that have cool visions for the future. You can reach out through social media and connect with people. Openness and trust are more important than polish and perfection. Caring matters more than ever. People can sense who you are through your twitter feeds, your LinkedIn activity, your Facebook page, your blog and your YouTube videos. Your sincerity will show… even if the glitz does not. People will know you better than they have ever been able to know you before… and that is a good thing. They will trust you because you are real, and because you will help them. Just get out there and be heard.





For me, this next week will mark 25 years of marriage to the most wonderful woman in the world. My wife and I are leaving town for a week, so I will not be available to moderate the Dentist Network group on LinkedIn… nor be able to tweet or blog next week.



